Tuesday Morning Wake-Up Call

Last month, the Mary Oliver estate launched a merch store — now, for just $35, you can wear a cropped tee that reminds you to give in to joy. […]

Oliver’s work offered sanctuary from the marketplace, not entry into it. She didn’t tweet or posture. She walked and watched. She noticed things and made noticing feel sacred. She wrote about geese and rivers and blackberries — not as metaphors to be performed, but as wonders to be witnessed. Her poems were quiet refusals. She left the party early, wandered into the woods, knelt in the grass.

Now her words are a sort of spiritual branding perfect for selfies.⁠⁠ […]

I want to believe not everything has to be for sale. A poem can be a product, yes. But it can also be a prayer, a resistance, a small doorway back to something unsellable, something quiet and alive. Maybe the question isn’t what we buy or wear, but what we still believe. We don’t need to carry Oliver’s words into the world. We just need to sit still long enough that they carry us.⁠⁠

Her most famous question — What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? — isn’t asking what you’ll post, or wear, or monetize. It’s asking what you’ll notice. What you’ll love without needing to be seen loving it.

We don’t need to wear the poem; we need to live it.

Ellen O’Connell Whittet, excerpts from “Mary Oliver Now Has a Merch Store, and She’d Hate It” (The Cut, May 2025)

Don’t miss the rest of the essay here.


Photo of Mary Oliver in NY Times (January 17, 2019): Mary Oliver, 83, Prize-Winning Poet of the Natural World, Is Dead

Sunday Morning.

[…] Faith surrounded me, inspiring my poetry. But I wanted to participate: I wanted to believe in belief, the religious kind, the God kind, and find my own way into this sacred landscape. Mostly, though, I remained a stalker of other people’s devotion. The Bhutanese monks with whom I sat practicing lotus mudra 108 times, the Tamil pilgrims I followed who put skewers through their cheeks as an act of devotion to Lord Murugan. I was a religious voyeur, trying to feel a charge from other people’s worshiping currents. But faith? I didn’t have it. Faith requires no evidence, and I was still seeking. […]

I haven’t stopped believing… that the world’s sacred, nodal sites offer us flashes of transcendence. A moment for our souls to be attentive and still. But I know now that an encounter with the sublime can happen in the most ordinary of places.

I’ve come to understand as well why poets so frequently address the invisible in their poems, something or someone they do not know and cannot see. Call it God, fog, the future. It is our need for connection that makes us speak into the void. Not so much for a reply, but simply as an expression of belief that someone is there, and is listening, and may even stretch out a hand.

Tishani Doshi, from “I Searched the World’s Holiest Places for a God” (NY Times, May 18, 2025). Doshi is a writer and dancer, is the author most recently of “A God at the Door,” a book of poems.


Photo Credit & Essay: Laurence Ellis Photo / Essay in the “Port” – “The Woman: Tishani Doshi

Lightly Child, Lightly.

“And this droplet of light…”

— Al-Saddiq Al-Raddi, “A Star,” tr. Hafiz Kheir with Mark Ford


Notes:

  • Twilight to Sunrise. Time Lapse Video. 5:00 am to 6:50 am, 110 minutes in 28 seconds. 33° F. April 10, 2025. Cove Island Park, Stamford, CT
  • Post Title & Inspiration: Aldous Huxley: “It’s dark because you are trying too hard. Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them.

Lightly Child, Lightly.

we’re small
and flawed,
but I want to be
who I am

Ada Limon, from “The Problem with Travel” in Bright Dead Things (Milkweed Editions, 2015) (via Read a Little Poetry)


Notes:

  • Photo of me by Cara Denison at 6:35 am this morning at low tide. Thank you Cara. 21° F, feels like 8° F, with wind gusts up to 15 mph. January 30, 2025. Cove Island Park, Stamford, CT. More photos from this morning’s walk here (twilight to sunrise) and here (my duck friends)
  • Post Title & Inspiration: Aldous Huxley: “It’s dark because you are trying too hard. Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them.

Not Yet

Morning of buttered toast;
of coffee, sweetened with milk.

Out of the window,
snow-spruces step from their cobwebs.
Flurry of chickadees, feeding then gone.
A single cardinal stipples an empty branch-
one maple leaf lifted back.

I turn my blessings like photographs into the light;
over my shoulder the god of Not-Yet looks on:

Not-yet-dead, not-yet-lost, not-yet-taken.
Not-yet-shattered, not-yet-sectioned,
not-yet-strewn.


Ample litany, sparing nothing I hate or love,
not-yet-silenced, not-yet-fractured, not-yet-
Not-yet-not.


I move my ear a little closer to that humming figure,
I ask him only to stay.

Jane Hirshfield, “Not Yet” in Come, Thief: Poems“. (HarperCollins, April 5, 2011)


Notes: Photo of Red Northern Cardinal on January 1, 2025 by DK at noon in backyard. Poem via having a poem with you.