The quiet irreplaceable and companionable presence of a daughter

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Joy is a meeting place, of deep intentionality and of self forgetting, the bodily alchemy of what lies inside us in communion with what formally seemed outside, but is now neither, but become a living frontier, a voice speaking between us and the world: dance, laughter, affection, skin touching skin, singing in the car, music in the kitchen, the quiet irreplaceable and companionable presence of a daughter: the sheer intoxicating beauty of the world inhabited as an edge between what we previously thought was us and what we thought was other than us.

~ David Whyte


Notes:

  • For Rachel, on your Birthday today.
  • Sources: Poem/Quote – Thank you Makebelieveboutique.com. Photograph: dpf.peterFather & daughter walk along beachTofino, BC, Canada — Image by © Henry Georgi/Wave/Corbis

42 thoughts on “The quiet irreplaceable and companionable presence of a daughter”

  1. Yes…I know that feeling well…and now I’m experiencing the quiet irreplaceable and companionable presence of a precious and beautiful granddaughter. Happy Birthday to your daughter…I know the place she holds in your heart. Life is something isn’t it? When it fills us with so much love.

  2. Yes, happy birthday to your daughter David!

    There’s nothing like the special bond between father and daughter, especially for those of us who are blessed with deep bonding, as I am with my dad. I don’t know when it got so good, but at 55 and 82, 3,000 miles apart, we are closer than at any previous time in our lives.

      1. I love being a mum! We have 2 daughter and 4 sons and they all make life the most incredible place to be 🙂

        God bless you lots, have a great weekend 🙂

          1. I like to think so, lol 🙂

            Sadly they are all grown up now, 3 are happily married, 1 is at Uni, we only have 2 of them still at home!! I miss the noise and the laughter. It has been and continues to be my great honour to be their mum 🙂

  3. Well! Iim balling my eyes out over this one, thinking of my Dad and hoping that he loves me as deeply as I do him, thankyou for this…its been a crazy day ere in Dawnys world and I needed these very words…Luv Dawny 🙂

  4. As a father to a 3 (almost 4, she often reminds me) I understand completely. I try my best to cherish every moment, every laugh, every tear. Thank you for the post and may her birthday be the bomb!

  5. The same could be said about a grandchild…in my case, a grandson. There is something magical, special, remarkable about a relationship like this. We are blessed!

  6. This is absolutely beautiful–not just the daughter stuff, but the blurring of self, losing the sense of our edge in the presence of wonder.

  7. I can totally relate, being a mom with a lovely daughter and having an awesome relationship with my Dad, who by the way celebrated his 80th birthday on July 10th.

    “Belated Happy Birthday Rachel”

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