The smartphone is an intimate device; we stare rapt into its bright light and stroke its smooth glass to coax out information and connect with others. It seems designed to help us achieve Westin’s functions of privacy*, to enable emotional release and moments of passive reflection. We cradle it in bed, at dinner, on the toilet. Its pop-up privacy policies are annoying speed bumps in the otherwise instantaneous conjuring of desires. It feels like a private experience, when really it is everything but. How often have you shielded the contents of your screen from a stranger on the subway, or the partner next to you in bed, only to offer up your secrets to the data firm tracking everything you do?
~ Amanda Hess, excerpt from “How Privacy Became a Commodity for the Rich and Powerful” (NY Times, May 9, 2017)
Notes:
- * personal autonomy, emotional release, self-evaluation and intimate communication
- Photo: Fernando Assumpcao with “smartphone“

The degree to which these devices have become ubiquitous is frightening. I fear this genie is going to be well nigh impossible to stuff back into the bottle, and we’ve yet to fully comprehend the havoc he is wreaking….
Well said Lori. That’s it. All being sucked into its vortex.
such a scary and sad state we have found ourselves in.
Yep. Fully caught in its web. World wide.
I am afraid of its allure, and as such can put it own as easily as I pick it up (and we don’t go to the bathroom together)
You aren’t an addict. Good for you Mimi.
The toilet is definitely out of bounds for me but not my kids! Honestly, is it really necessary? 🙄
Apparently it is (for some of us). (Red faced)
Ha! 😉
Smartphones are also overused and are annoying interferences with face to face communication.
They do. Addiction near impossible to break.
I don’t even have a cell phone, but I do need my computer at home and my laptop when I’m traveling. Email works for me, and a landline phone is fine. Why would I need more?
Good. Don’t even take a sip. Or you can’t look back.
I don’t miss it at all.
It is crazy how many people I know scoffed at us smartphone users only to become one themselves. It starts so slowly and let’s be honest, for most of us, leaving home without it causes quasi-panic attacks (full-on, for some!)
Yep. Truth. Quasi-panic attack. Yep. Me Dale.
Me too, fear not!!
So true. Fully caught, worldwide and no solution in sight.
I agree. Indira.
Yes, yes and so much yes. Profoundly perfect.
It is!
Do you recall the times we weren’t attached to them? How we could peacefully just sit and wait for 5 minutes somewhere and contemplate nothing or just enjoy the scenery? We lose so much presence by having them as an extra appendage. I am with the masses as well, attached to the phone. I’m only offering this as a notation – a remember when? for those who can remember when…my kids think it’s funny that I didn’t get a cell phone until I was 28 yrs old. But that was when the cell phones became available to most people! It feels like now kids come out of the womb, thumbs ready to click and innately know how!
So much truth in your thought her Yvonne!