You just can’t think too deeply about it

~ Live & Learn

Think about the work that goes into tying your shoelaces. It calls for physical exertion, dexterity, and cleverness, any child between the ages of six and nine years old knows it, early in life it is a serious matter, the bow the greatest mystery, the fingers, the hands, the laces, altogether an apparently unsolvable riddle. But once you have mastered it, you forget how complicated it is, the years pass until one day—having put your socks on—you look down at your feet, unsure of how to proceed.

~ Linn Ullmann, ”Unquiet: A Novel” (W. W. Norton & Company, January 15, 2019)

Notes: Photo titled Self Perfection by Randy’sPhotography

49 thoughts on “You just can’t think too deeply about it”

      1. No, really! I hated having to tie my shoes. Unless I sat on the floor. I still do that, sit on the floor to tie my shoes. I watched my 3 kids learn to do it so fast, that was a huge relief.

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          3. My mind understands it can never happen. Some other crazy part of me
            is scared technology will collectively take over while we’re not looking. I can’t put my guard down, you know, just in case.

            I’m typing this and LAUGHING at myself. Still, no cruise control for me!

            By definition, cruise control is an electronic device in a motor vehicle that can be switched on to maintain a selected constant speed without the use of the accelerator. An electric device!!! Dint trust that with your life!

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  4. You start scaring me, David. This past Monday, we had a vivid discussion with mother-in-law about the wonder and difficulty of ‘being able to lace one’s shoes’….. MiL is now at an age where she has great difficulties to lace hers so she’s going ‘back’ to looking for walking shoes with her insoles being comfy, NOT UGLY, and with velcro instead of laces. At the same time I discussed with a teacher-friend how important those first BIG learnings are for a child, to be able to tie their shoes and that with all the velcroed sneakers etc they lag behind….. isn’t it really intruiging, to read about this at the same time – and pointing it out?! Isn’t it wonderful too that we can spend some of our hurried, precious time on ‘little things’ like speaking about learning to tie your shoelaces?! I love Linn Ullmann more by the minute.

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  5. Reblogged this on It Is What It Is and commented:
    So true … reminds me of my grandkids!! … ‘Think about the work that goes into tying your shoelaces. It calls for physical exertion, dexterity, and cleverness, any child between the ages of six and nine years old knows it, early in life it is a serious matter, the bow the greatest mystery, the fingers, the hands, the laces, altogether an apparently unsolvable riddle.’

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  6. Pancreatic cancer took my best fiend recently.I’m grieve the loss. But this morning’s quote softens the blow just a bit. Wayne’s greatest fear was that he would follow his father’s steps into Alzheimer’s. He could still tie his shoelaces — a reason to be grateful. Maybe.

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  8. Last one in my kindergarten class to learn to tie my shoes. The advantage being that I got special attention from a cute girl who taught me to tie my shoes. Life lesson, make something out of knowing nothing.

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  11. My nephew started running Ultras about 8 years ago. Then he got the cancer, and became the darling of the running community in NW Arkansas. He died last summer.
    They are having a Memorial Run for Dave in two weeks, varying distances and times. I am going to run a 5K. I’m supposed to have been training to run the 5k. But I haven’t. One of the things holding me back is lacing up my tennis shoes. I’ve reached a shape that it hurts to try to do so. So this afternoon I’m going down the the Sketchers outlet right next to my office and buying some Velcro shoes that I wont have to bend over and hold my breath for so long in order to lace them up.
    Its complete surrender , I know, and probably wont even increase the odds that I will begin “training” for my scheduled 5K.
    I don’t know if I ever shared this with you. Probably I have. Davy was an unusual fellow.
    http://epicultras.com/featured-runner-dave-renfro-april-2016/

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  14. whether to be in a funk about it or not…is the question…I’m feeling grief about my current bodily decrepitude–cataract surgery required…feel the anger, and acceptance… The shoe laces–I loved watching my youngest son in nursery school teach a playmate who was somewhat handicapped (now that boy is a handicapped man)…thinking we’re all handicapped…Dang! and this was only about children learning to tie shoelaces!

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