Dear Brothers (both younger, adults, but needing direction):
Remember the research on margarine vs. butter? This falls on the same playing field. Don’t believe everything you read.
ScienceDaily, July 15, 2015:
Massive study: Birth order has no meaningful effect on personality or IQ:
For those who believe that birth order influences traits like personality and intelligence, a study of 377,000 high school students offers some good news: Yes, the study found, first-borns do have higher IQs and consistently different personality traits than those born later in the family chronology. However, researchers say, the differences between first-borns and ‘later-borns’ are so small that they have no practical relevance to people’s lives.~ University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign
If you missed the prior post on my Brother Rich, here’s the link; “New Research. Bull. It’s the natural order.
Notes: Photograph: Thank you Emily RC Photography

Hey! I’m the oldest and I don’t think I like this.
You must be an aberration at the tail end of the curve. A special (very) person.
I’m the oldest but my younger brother is pretty smart….
Your brother is an aberration. Some research some where will prove this out.
Yes, he is, but the good kind.
What? Wait. I’m a first-born. I like the previous interpretation David. 🙂
Diana xo
Laughing…
I guess you’re the youngest?? (grinning)
Ha!
I’m the youngest, so I’m grinning from ear to ear 🙂
Where do you land on this continuum?
You are the youngest. (Note to self: smirk). Stick around here, the oldest will lead you to the light.
Hmm…second to the youngest out of six children..What influential significance did that have on me.? I say it had a huge impact. I learned by observation, I learned give and take, survival skills and so much more. It was an advantage to have siblings, older and younger, brothers and sisters…Two much older brothers (one has passed) and the four girls all within a five year span…”The study controlled for potentially confounding factors — such as a family’s economic status, the number of children and the relative age of the siblings at the time of the analysis — that might skew the results, Damian said.”
Smiling on the “survival skills” part…and at Damian’s final word.
We firstborns have to take everything with a grain of salt.
Here’s more evidence of first born wisdom. It just oozes all over.
As the first born in my family, I, too, must taken exception to these findings. And from my alma mater no less! And I am not letting the evidence presented by my younger brother, who’s a skilled plastic surgeon, dissuade me from my right-headed thinking, oh no I’m not….
The wisdom that pours from you, eldest, is irrefutable. Almost genius I would say.
I’m the youngest of two…though I look older and am less wise..
I’d say you’re proof-positive that this study may have merit. 😘
Absolutely!
Smiling. Just smiling.
“the differences ….. are so small”—my butt! 😀
Exactly. The differences are MASSIVE.
Interesting. Where do most bloggers come in ? Results are pretty clear. I had many comments on my Birth Order post. Here is the tally: 21 Bloggers
FIRST BORN – 15. MIDDLE CHILD – 5. YOUNGEST – 0. CLONE – 1.
The post…https://vanbytheriver.wordpress.com/2015/05/31/birth-order/
Ahhh yes, first-borns may be slightly more intelligent, but I can guarantee you from firsthand experience as the sensitive middle child they can be stubborn as mules and (sometimes) dumb as a sack of hammers!
Ha! DK, I dare say your sibling has thrown down the gauntlet!! I’m off to make the popcorn! 🙂
Ah yes. I’ve been noodling my response. Too harsh, run to Mommy. Too soft, he’ll completely miss the point. Needs to be like a 15 lb anvil from 10′ up.
Geese, popcorn AND a beer!
Ahhh yes, Rich Van Winkle has awakened from his stupor. “Sensitive?” Wow. Thou giveth himself far too much credit. But, I need to give you credit. You were up before noon, while our youngest brother is still having breakfast. Sad, really. Both of you.
…..full of sound and fury signifying nothing.
I’ve found that following scientific studies is like following political polls. Since each are initiated by impressionable and fallable men and women, it should then not matter in the least if one chooses to consume white or wheat bread.
“There are more things in heaven and earth,Horatio,…”
-Alan
Now, there is wisdom!
Hmm… My oldest brother is the biggest baby and the most coddled. The 2nd, my oldest sister, is the most organized and mothers everyone. The 2 middles – a boy then a girl – are both quiet worriers who turn everything inward.
And then there’s me – the youngest. Not a baby by any stretch of the imagination. I love them all but we are vastly different 😀 MJ
What a pack!
seeing them all next week – family wedding – MJ