wsj.com: Eight Principles of Successful Optimists
If there were one guiding principle that encapsulated all pragmatic optimists, it would simply be: “judge your worth not by what you own, but by what you create”…In my travels documenting and working with a number of these individuals I’ve observed number of core principles they all seem to share, and they’re principles any of us can adopt:
- Have an unashamed optimism of ambition. (Don’t feel embarrassed to say that things can be better. Have no qualms about imagining an improved world and advocating for it, no matter how much derision you may receive at the hands of the cynical.)
- Engage in projects that are bigger than you are. (“Find something more important than you are and dedicate your life to it.”)
- Your ideas are for sharing, not protecting. (Pragmatic optimists happily let their ideas go out dating.)
- Making mistakes is OK, but not trying is irresponsible.
- You’re defined by what you do, not by what you intend to do. (Pragmatic optimists aren’t interested in what you might do if you had more time, or if your manager was more understanding, or if you were the manager, or if it was next week. You are what you do. That’s it. Get on with it.)
- Be an engineer. Engineers do not build bridges from a left-wing or right-wing perspective. They build bridges from an evidence-based perspective and over time bridge-building gets better.)
- Be prepared to lose nine battles out of ten. You cannot win them all, but you will likely win one battle out of ten. In “round two” be prepared to win one battle out of nine, and by round three one out of eight. By the time you’ve done that, you’ve created enough of a shift for the rest to follow. If you entered the fray worried about losing nine out of ten you’d never start. Concentrate on winning the one. Overnight success is for the movies.
- Kick out cynicism. Cynicism has become embedded in our society and is seen as wisdom. Yet there is nothing wise or even likeable about cynicism. Cynicism is like smoking, you may think it looks cool but it’s really bad for you – and worse than that it’s bad for everyone around you. For the cynic, everything is just a little too hard to imagine, or do. As such, cynicism is both a recipe and an excuse for laziness and you should have no time for it.
~ Mark Stevenson is the author of “An Optimist’s Tour of the Future” (Avery Books)
Source: wsj.com via thisisn’thappiness. Image Credit.
Live & Learn 
* nods enthusiastically *
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:), Me too Marion, me too.
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Trying to pick my favorite one. Impossible! 😛 great post!
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Yes, a number of lessons for me here…
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Reblogged this on Ralphie´s Portal and commented:
Good article!
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I agree, thank you.
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Sage advice. I especially like the concept of sending my ideas out dating. Who knows who they may hook up with? 🙂
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Exactly!
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“Yes We Can!!”…ooops.
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🙂
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I like the you are defined by what you do, not what you intend to do. Also, your worth is based on what you create.
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Yes, that is what grabbed my attention too Alex…
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This has me thinking. You are what you do, but you do what you are, too. By that I mean I need to continually work at removing the things in my life that keep me from being my best at what I do. I also think I need another cup of coffee or I’ll hurt myself thinking like this so early in the morning…
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Smiling. I see exactly where you are going with this line of thinking. And, yes, it can make one’s head hurt. 🙂
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This is great!
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Thank you. I had same reaction when I read it…
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Now to keep those cynical ideas away from my optimistic ideas when I let them start to date! Great points all. Thanks for sharing.
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Yes. That’s exact it…:)
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Love Love Love this!! Thanks for sharing! ❤
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🙂 LOVE THIS too! Thanks.
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Great and inspiring post. It would have done a lot of good if I had read it when I was young.
Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you. Yes. Not sure that I would have been listening or paying much attention when I was younger.
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Great lessons. This is what needs to be taught to our kids today in school!! Like you said Dave…wish I would have learned these kind of information when I was younger.
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🙂
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Love the post David. We need to move out of neutral in order to get to first gear. 🙂
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Thanks Melody. I so agree…
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loving number five; i could do more here 😉 …
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Well consider yourself one step from Mastery Anake. I could use work on more than several. 🙂
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i was more thinking of number five as a good place to start David ; ) …
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Well, good then Anake. It’s all in the starting. 🙂
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I love it! I didn’t expect to see No.6 though! What a beautiful way to describe engineers! 🙂
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It was beautiful and tactful!
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