The water in the creek is often surprisingly warm. After the first shock, it is easy to stay in. It is perhaps thirty metres long and I swim fast and methodically up and down. I don’t like to talk or mess around when I’m swimming; or it might be more accurate to say that I can’t imagine being able to mess around, can’t imagine being free from my own rules and ambitions, and more accurate still to say that I’m frightened of what might happen if I were. Instead I set myself a target and count the lengths. My husband dives in and swims for a little while, slowly, without particular direction. Then he turns over and lies on his back and floats, looking at the sky.
~ Rachel Cusk, in Coventry (Farrar, Straus and Giroux. September 16, 2019)
Note: Photo Gif via poppins-me
different approaches to life. I’m in the ‘just float’ camp.
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No doubt you are…no doubt.
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With ya, pal. I tend to be an ‘eye on the prize’ sorta gal, too…
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No doubt. No doubt.
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I’m definitely on my back floating – I never get where I thought I was going to go anyway (and where I end up is invariably more than a-ok)
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Would have guessed that Mimi….I would.
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Laughing…so much for being opaque..😉
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Fully transparent. But old work life must have conflicted with it.
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My impact on professional services cannot be overstated…
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Guess my camp and I tell you if you’re right!
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Float!
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You’re right. BUT the funny thing is that I fought so much in my life to get to my goals that it STILL happens that I count my length, w/o wanting to or even against my inner self. I have one sister who is so highly competitive that when I phone her, she MUST tell me the number of lengths she swam, or the no of km she rode her bike or the length of time she power-walked. The rest of the family just shakes their head…. floating is IT.
Beautiful pairing, needs to be said once again 😉
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Smiling. Lucky to Float and still achieve your goals. That is operating at a very high level.
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Now you’re flattering me…. Now it’s only floating 🙂 The inner counting is me not being able to throw the ‘Swiss’ out….
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😊😊😊
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I find it comforting to know there are people like this out there.
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Yep
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Rachel, you do some beautifully painted writing!
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She does.
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I should not have read this so early in the morning — nor the comments. Everyone is so ‘with’ the swimming metaphor but me…I’m usually no where NEAR the water. Don’t worry. I’ll eventually get into the water…
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Claudia; don’t feel bad please. Hero Husband has grown up next to a very large lake (Léman, Switzerland), nearly drowned twice (once pushed by a friend, and once he fainted, wd you believe it) and what did I do when he visited at Lake Zurich? Right, I pushed him from a low stone wall into the lake and nearly drowned again….. So, just go slowly in, put the water on and over your body, take a deep breath and dip in – and FLOAT! gOOD LUCK!
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Laughing. With your toe anyway.
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Swimming … ‘ I don’t like to talk or mess around when I’m swimming; or it might be more accurate to say that I can’t imagine being able to mess around, can’t imagine being free from my own rules and ambitions, and more accurate still to say that I’m frightened of what might happen if I were. Instead I set myself a target and count the lengths.’ … Rachel Cusk, in Coventry (Farrar, Straus and Giroux. September 16, 2019).
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I am, unfortunately, or not, definitely a floater. Though I prefer to call it a go-with-the-flow rather than a floater 😉
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Yeah, that figures – going with the flow 😉 Sending you love!
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All good, Kiki! 😊
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Shocking!!!
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Do I detect a note of sarcasm in your tone, young man?
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Dripping!
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Uh huh… I’ve no doubt!
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floating and enjoying life sounds nice
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It does!
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I’d have my stopwatch and heart rate monitor going…
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Laughing. So me too Jim.
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