“How long to Grand Central?”
“20 minutes, maybe 30, it’s Rush Hour.”
Uber driver. Black Toyota Camry. Leather seats worn. Dashboard tanned with thousands of hours of direct sunlight.
“Your English is good. Where are you from?”
He glances at me in the rear view mirror. Reticent.
“Ethiopia, Sir.”
“How long have you been here?”
“9 years.”
“And your family? Are they here or back in Ethiopia?”
“Oh, they’re all back in Ethiopia. I’m here with my wife.”
“Do you miss home?”
Long pause.
“People think it’s easy. Here in America.” He pulls up. Polite, respectful.
I shift the conversation. We’re a few minutes out.
“You have a 4.94 (out of 5) driver rating. Wow. That’s something. How do you do it?”
“I don’t know Sir.” He smiles.
“I’m curious. Out of 10 rides, how many riders tip?”
“One or two.”
“No, can’t be. I’m sorry. Maybe my question wasn’t clear. Of your last 10 rides today, how many times were you tipped?
“One time, Sir.” Just can’t be.
I glance at the app, the fare is $8.52. And there it is again. Marc Cohn’s hit “Saving the Best for Last…Got into a cab in New York City…Was an Oriental man behind the wheel…Starting talking about heaven like it was real….Don’t have to drive no lousy cab…Got everything you want and more man…And the King picks up the tab…Don’t ask me how I know…‘Cause it must be…Saving the best for last for me
“What hours do you work?”
“Only Rush Hours Sir, the rate is higher.”
“You drive in this traffic, every day?”
“Yes Sir.”
Traffic is thick and grazing inches from the fenders of both sides of the Camry. Cabs and cars zig zag in a chaos dance trying to advance position.
Two Men, breathing same air, walking on same earth, living on different planets.
“Which Grand Central entrance would you like to be dropped off at?”
“Anywhere within 2 blocks is fine.”
“2 blocks?”
“Yes. I can walk. I see traffic is bad.”
We arrive. I thank him for the ride. I step out of cab. And tap his window.
He lowers his window, anxious look on his face.
“Two.”
“Two, Sir?”
“Yes, two.” I point to my phone.
He smiles, and pulls away into traffic.
And when I finally take this journey
I’m gonna wave goodbye to Earth
Gonna throw this meter in the ocean
And prove what I was worth
And I don’t care who tries to flag me down
They’re gonna have to find another ride uptown
And I know
They’re saving the best for last”
Notes:
- Photograph: alex with any color you like nyc
- Commuting Series
You’re killing me!!!
I have been meaning to ask for his permission to write about it. See, there is this person who’s dear to my heart, I correct myself, he lives in my heart, who decided to become an Uber driver few weeks ago. He’s 60 years old. After 40 years in corporate jobs. But he has to do what he has to do.
I have this locating app on my phone and am constantly watching over him. I don’t want him stuck in one place for too long, it worries me.
I don’t want anyone to be mean, or shallow, or disrespectful to him. Two nights ago he said, “Sawsan, this is the happiest I have ever been.”
I always want people to be tender and respectful to workers providing a service. But, this worker is my heart 😢❤
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So, do it!!!!!
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I don’t want to bother him.
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He will be thrilled! Make his day!
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I will try 😊
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I finally asked, and he said yes!
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Come on. We all would have said yes if we had a month to think about it!
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No! I smoked him today, and he answered as if he was waiting for me to ask! He said yes right away, as in, “what took u so long to ask.” Loool
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Hmmmm. Not buying it.😃
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Asked him, not smoked him!
He’s a scorpio, so u gotta know when to ask. You know how that goes 😁
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Ha! Manipulated him. So typical!
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LOOOOL
Exactly!
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Any other ending would surprise me. The world needs more DKs.
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Thank you Ray.
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this ending is no surprise to me at all. you are the real deal.
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Thank you Beth. Appreciate it.
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I’m just back home from my long trip and this is the first post I read – great writing to be back to, DK! And yes, I’ve had similar reflections on my travels. Many different planets.
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Smiling. Thank you Helen. Welcome back!
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Small kind gestures create ripples across our world and allow kindness and peace to grow. I feel the ripple effect Mr K 🚣🏼🌞
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Thank you Karen. I feel like I received more than I gave.
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It can be such a dangerous job.
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Couldn’t imagine doing it day in and day out. Stress off the charts.
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Amazing… I love your writing in about daily life… Not easy job especially in big cities,
Thank you dear David, Love, nia
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Thank Nia. So appreciate your kind thoughts.
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Really nice reality piece and the music blend was perfectly placed.
Only thing I didn’t get was the two at the end, can you enlighten me?
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hi Fionn. Thank you. I appreciate the kind thoughts. He told me that 1 out of his last 10 riders tipped him. I told him I was #2.
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Ah I see. Nice one, good heart.
Similarly when I eat out I always tip, but from experience working on the other side the worst tippers are often the wealthier people and big bills often leave no tips. Plenty snobby people out there.
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Yes Fionn. My experience though is that non-tippers come in all shapes and sizes and socio-economic levels….
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So true for me!
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Great!
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🙂 🙂 Happy peaceful weekend!
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Thanks. You too…
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On the level on which we’re all connected, thank you for being you, David!
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Agree Valerie! Thank you!
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“People think its easy. Here in America”
I have a couple friends that have tried to work Uber/Lyft/GoEats. Its like the last gasp before total destruction, the way throwing the paper was for me in my addiction 21 years ago.
But its funny how throughout history it’s the immigrants that somehow make these otherwise dead end jobs work.
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They sure do make it work Steve. They work, and work and work…
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You’re standing in for us all, pal. Loved this story and the connection, however brief, that you enjoyed with this man. I am appalled to hear that so few people tip…not surprised, sadly, but appalled. It never ever hurts to be generous and kind, that’s my experience.
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Yes, I was shocked by it Lori. And after gas, oil, wear and tear, and a bite to eat, not sure what is left for these drivers. Sad…
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Great writing and insight … with confidence and grace. No need to doubt or second guess. Do what right in your heart. 💕
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Yes…so true Val. Thanks.
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Back in the day, when I first discovered you, David, I read some of your Commuter stories. I didn’t quite get the subject “commuter and just writing about that at first.
Just now I looked up your whole Commuter series.
YOU ARE A MANIAC Writer just bursts out. What I really mean though is wow! Since like 2013, commuter stories keep flowing as you live and write. And there they all are.
Damn.
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Smiling. You are too kind Jessica. Thank you!
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“Two Men, breathing same air, walking on same earth, living on different planets.” What you don’t know my friend…is that when things are especially difficult for me at home, I sometimes will look for your writing, just your writing…and then I am renewed for a bit. Thank you.
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Awww, thank you Carol. Appreciate it very much.
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Thank you for tipping. With all the questions we put a driver through, he deserves it.
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Ha. Never looked at it that way.
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One day I may share stories as an Uber passenger with my family. They were our guardian angels as well.
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Can’t wait!
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Excellent post.
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Thank you!
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