This coming Sunday, in homes across the nation, millions of American men will awake to the arrival of breakfast in bed. Prepared and served by their children, these Father’s Day repasts convey appreciation as well as contributing to the general bonhomie of the day to come. But as he sips his coffee from his “World’s Greatest Dad” mug, even the most obtuse father has to ask himself: Have I been the man my children deserve?
~ William McGurn, The Politically Incorrect Guide to Father’s Day, wsj.com, June 12, 2017
Photo by Julien Stenger
I think every parent arguably poses that question pretty regularly. Today though, enjoy the day – and ask tomorrow. Happy Dad’s day, my friend…
LikeLiked by 3 people
Thank you Mimi
LikeLike
The answer from every daughter and son will be a yes.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I so wish/hope that you are right, for all children and their Fathers’…
LikeLiked by 1 person
A great and important question!
LikeLiked by 1 person
It is!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Reblogged this on The Camerist's Collection and commented:
A question, too important, not to reblog! Thanks David Kanigan for the blogpost!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks for sharing Marlan!
LikeLike
You’re more than welcome! tc
LikeLike
Only the good ones doubt. The great ones ask out loud. Happy Father’s day David.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Awwww, thank you Sawsan. (One can though, keep the doubt a bit in check. :))
LikeLiked by 1 person
If you’re self-aware enough to ask, you’re halfway home. Just look at R and E — the way they turned out speaks volumes. Happy Father’s Day, pal!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Smiling. Thank you Lori.
LikeLike
A thought not reserved for just one day a year.
LikeLiked by 1 person
So True Ray. Happy Father’s Day to you too…
LikeLiked by 1 person
… and to you also, fine sir
LikeLiked by 1 person
good to reflect on what every parent ponders at times – happy father’s day, dk –
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes. Thank you Beth.
LikeLiked by 1 person
The older I get, the older they get, the more I ask it…
LikeLiked by 1 person
So true Jeff. Happy Father’s Day.
LikeLike
Children don’t come with instructions but it sounds like you put it together beautifully. Happy Father’s Day, David and to all the great dads on this comment page. ☺☺
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you Patricia. Appreciate it.
LikeLiked by 1 person
That is a great question, but luckily you (and we) know the answer. Happy Father’s Day, David!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Smiling. Thank you Helen.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Well written reflection; YES and THANK YOU=HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!
I wish we as a society see what we do to our Father’s and Dad’s as they go out and slay dragons for us and even men have to deal with the good old boys as they had dreams, got married, family started arriving! Great to tell your parents while living how awesome they are and give HONOR to them, hugs and kisses everyday, not just one day! Thinking of over 200 family/friends showing up to Father’s Day Picnic/ Barbeque celebrating.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wonderful. Thank you!
LikeLike
Happy Father’s Day, Dave!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks Peggy!
LikeLike
I would have given the hubby breakfast in bed since there were no kids present, but he got up before I did!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I get it! It’s the thought that counts!
LikeLike
I think all parents ask themselves these questions. We won’t know the answers till our children are grown and have kids of their own, I suspect. Or we may be lucky and be told by our kids one day that “You know what Dad/Mom? I really appreciate my childhood and what you gave me.
Or not.
Happy Father’s Day, David. I betcha “ya done alright”…
LikeLiked by 1 person
Smiling. “Or not”. Thank you Dale
LikeLiked by 1 person
😁
LikeLike
…but hopefully we’ll see our good work!
I just hope I never get something like my friend posted: happy father’s day to my dad who taught me how now to be… I was saddened by that.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Unfortunately, we know this is true. It is sad.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Terrific quote. Vital question (not to answer, but to ask).
Done a bit of the ol’ dad-reflection meself recently.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes, me too….
LikeLiked by 1 person
Indeed.
LikeLike
wish you and all dads all good!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you!
LikeLiked by 1 person